When you are being judged, your personality comes before anything else. Personality is not just about the looks. Even a good-looking person can have a poor personality. To put it simply, it is the combination of –
the way you look,
the way you speak, and
- the way you behave.
A man can not be having an impressive personality, if he cant appear confident just for instance, no matter how good he looks. 5 Basic for a Well Groomed Personality- Here are some tips which are very useful for personality development. Know Yourself: When you begin on your quest to personality development, knowing yourself is the first step. This way you can figure out your existing personality and decide whether it needs to change or not. Its not just your favorite stuff that you need, but also about your strengths and weaknesses. Find out what all you lack and then work on your personality accordingly. Avoid Comparison: It is important for you to accept that you can't be the best in everything. You have your own set of skills and so do others. So learn to appreciate them but don't compare yourself with them. Doing that, you will end up either overestimating or underestimating yourself, which is not a good gesture. Doing something you can't does not make a person better than you. There will be something else that you can do and he can't. It is good to compete, but not to compare. Have A Positive Attitude: It is time you started to change your every “cannot” into “can”! For anything you want to achieve, you need to have a positive attitude. Even before you make the first try, you should believe that you can get what you want. Facing tough times is a part of life and you need to have the spirit to get past it. Present Yourself In The Best Way: You may have good looks, but Make sure that the way you present yourself complements that. Add more expressions and pleasing tones to the words you speak. With a monotonous speech, you will be too boring to be listened to. You don't want that. Besides people get impressed by those who have humility, boldness, courteousness, decent mannerisms and the urge for involvement. The involvement here is concerned only with the important issues, not the unnecessary stuff. Be Yourself! Never try imitating anyone else but your true self. Its indeed the key to success. Always remember, if the one you imitate is so good, he/she would have been in your place!! Speak your mind, never undermine your potential, neither have a condescending attitude towards others. Helping gestures take you far up the ladder if success! More important than all the stuff mentioned above, is confidence. It will give you all the positive energy you need to achieve your goals. ***